Valentines day

It is about that time the Holiday that you either love or hate. We get so caught up in the gifts and planning a spectacular evening that we loose sight of the true meaning of Valentines day which is to be with the person you love and show them how much you care. Yes the tradition was to send a card to your valentine but we get stuck on the lavish presents to make significant other happy. 

No wonder we dread the holiday it has turned from a symbol of love to a materialistic holiday. If you truly love one another getting alone time should be all that it is about. This a day that we can put our busy lives aside in the excuse of I need to celebrate with my special someone. 

As a girl I know for me personally that yes it is nice to get all dressed up and go to this elaborate dinner but I would also be ok with a dinner in and a movie just the two of us. Maybe light some candles to make it more romantic and I am set. You can even though in some light drinks like a wine or champagne and you have a perfect night that cost less and gives you alone time. 

Now that I have said this not every girl is the same so you need to know your significant other. Some girls want you to take them out and show them off. You guys may not get out often so this night is used as an excuse to go out and be away from the house. Make sure you and your significant other are on the same page and it will be a wonderful night. 

Another tip to take stress off the day is split up the day if you can. Don't make one person do all the work and the planning. Me and my boyfriend are doing this year day and I am taking the morning shift after church and because I have to go in to work Sunday for a little he is taking the evening shift when I get off. So now he doesn't have to plan the whole day like most girls expect guys to do. This also makes them feel like it is their day as well. I can dote on him for a little while and then he can dote on me later. 

As everyone says communication is key and knowing the other person is key as well. As long as you have both of these you will have an amazing day. 

Don't stress just enjoy each others company and the rest will fall into place.